
There’s no question that people do business with people they like, and the key to having someone like you is to build rapport with them. But sometimes, that’s easier said than done. One of the challenges to building rapport is simply understanding what “rapport” really is.
Rapport is a process of building a sustaining relationship of mutual trust, harmony and understanding. It is essentially meeting individuals in their model of the world and this happens through matching the accessing cues from words, eye movements and body language. Rapport is the ability to be on the same wavelength and to connect mentally and emotionally with an individual. It is the ability to join people where they are in order to build a climate of trust and respect. Having rapport does not mean that you have to agree, but that you understand where the other person or people are coming from.
The secret to acquiring this skill? Quite simple really. Pay attention! People give you so many non-verbal clues that you are doing yourself a disservice by ignoring them. Therefore, always listen to how you're prospects describe what their looking for to pick up on the hotspots that you can relate to. Note their subconscious movements when describing features about the perfect apartment they're looking for to determine what's important to them. In doing so, you will be able to establish a much better relationship with your prospect and make them feel welcome as a potential new neighbor in your community!
Enjoy!
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